I'd rather be soft and weak and have a heart than be all tough and macho with none. Just sayin'. Who I am and what I feel does not make me weak. Like to remind our listeners that I have spent the last ten years looking after my baby sister, five of those, so far, after having given up my job to do so. You want strong? Take care of a loved one for the rest of your life, accept you'll have no life of your own outside that, that you'll never have a relationship or take a holiday again, and stay positive for them, don't let them think you resent them for it. Don't resent them for it, and be sincere about that. Then come talk to me about being weak.
