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Old 01-07-2015, 08:24 PM   #117 (permalink)
Chula Vista
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Dear ________________

Tough one. What hours do you work together? Is it possible to ask her out for something really innocent like a quick bite? Then you can see how it goes from there. I met my wife at work and here we are 35 years later so it can work.

I'd say give it a go but very, very slowly. If she keeps reacting positively you can keep cranking things up. If you start catching negative vibes you just dial everything back.

Good luck either way.

Suddenly Serious,
Chula
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