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Old 01-18-2015, 06:20 AM   #57 (permalink)
Trollheart
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Originally Posted by Blarobbarg View Post
I have always felt that the treatment of women on this forum is super pervy and gross, for the most part, but I'm not one to tell anyone what they can or cannot do. As long as there's an understanding with the person in question, say whatever you want, just realize that if you say something pervy people are going to think you're pervy.

You big ol' pervert.
The bolded part.
Super important.
If I were to compliment any woman and she returned with a version of "**** off you old perv" or even "please don't do that it makes me uncomfortable" then I would immediately stop, apologise and never do it again.

As a very tame example, I had a tendency to call Misspoptart by her real name. She PM'd me and asked me not to do that, as she preferred some anonymity online here, and I never have done since. It's all about consensual acceptance. When it isn't, then it can very much become creepy, even frightening.
BOO!
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