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Originally Posted by GuitarBizarre
Can we take a brief step to the side here?
I really don't get it when people say stuff like this. I mean, you're essentially saying the guys bad side was so obvious you could tell from a mile away, and that you decided to start sleeping with him anyway.
What, you were like "That guy looks like a complete ******* WELP TIME TO GO DANCE THE WILD MAMBO AND REGRET IT LATER"?
People make really, really ****ty decisions on who to get with, I know, but there's a point of awfulness where you have to say "Maybe you are a really crappy judge of character?"
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Again, I wasn't aware of his actions/dark side until it was already too late and I was in too deep. Apart from being what he was, he was a genuinely nice person. Funny, smart, full of life, a really good-looking guy.
He just happened to be a master secret keeper and a major creep.
My worst regret is that I didn't call the whole thing off the minute I found out what he'd been up to. I thought I could fix him or whatever (I was 19 at the time and he was 27) but in the end I was the one that said "I'm not going to marry you". That should have been a given before almost a year passed, but whatever. Live and learn.