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Originally Posted by Vanilla
Okay but you kind of made her out to be "bad' for posting personal relationship stuff on MB. If I were you, I would have said to her "babe, do you mind if we not discuss this stuff on the forum, I can talk to your about it privately now/later. I would be gentle with her because she is a little vulnerable right now. It sounds like she needs a girlfriend like me to be there to talk to.
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That's not it at all. I just have a personal preference to not having relationship issues on a music forum that we are on together. It's not only bad for us personally, but it's bad for the people who have to read the potential drama that results from it. I didn't respond to it because I texted her when I saw it saying it wasn't appropriate / I didn't like that she did it. If however i'm wrong for doing that, so be it. It's my personal preference to keep personal issues away from the forum. If it's something about her and not a relationship issue, I don't mind if she posts it. But I just felt it was unnecessary to drag me into it when it wasn't the forums responsibility to deal with it.