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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah
Soo...For those of you who don't know ,I have an 8 year old daughter.Now I gave her up for adoption the day she was born.Her dad and I signed away our parental rights for her to be able to have oh I dunno birthdays and fun stuff that we couldn't give her.Also I was quite the tourtued soul at the time.Herion addicts make terrible parents,right so flash forward to this evening baby daddy calls me and says"Jess gimme the # to the adoption ppl.I am married and have two other kids and I want to raise our daughter.."
" Bitch she's 8 years old have you lost yo godamamn mind?"
Really Bro? You cant just rip a kid from her legal patents.Not to mention if by some miracle you could what the hell makes you think that little girl wants to live in TN in a trailer park with you and yo step kids? What makes you think Id give you the # ? You on dat dope?
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I actually was adopted at birth, and can maybe offer some insight for you? First of all, I have never, ever, felt ill will toward my birth mother. I understand, and appreciate, the fact the she realized she couldn't offer me the kind of life she wanted for her child, so she chose to give an opportunity to a couple who desperately wanted a child of their own. I don’t even consider my birth father a factor in the situation, whatsoever.
I’ve never met her, know nothing about her, but I still love her deeply for the decision that she made. Secondly, my adoptive parents are my parents. Cut and dry. They’ve given me an extremely supported life, unwavering amounts of love, a college education, the list goes on.
Let’s just ignore the fact that he kinda sounds like an idiot, especially because he believes any adoption agency would willingly give up any information surrounding your beeb, whether it was an open adoption or not. I’ll be honest; I’ve tried to seek out my birth mother, just to see what she looks like, to learn my ancestry, **** like that. Sometimes I wonder if she’s trying to find me as well. But either way, the couple who raised me are my parents, that will never change.