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Originally Posted by Ki
If someone can't come to terms with someone's death in 4 years, then yes, that is a bit ridiculous.
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I think it's this bit people are pissed about. You seem to be saying how come everyone can't deal with loss/death like I do, few days (or even years) and it's gone, I feel ok. But a lot of people, myself included, can and have taken even decades to get over the loss of a parent or someone close, and in some cases, it just never happens: they're always in your mind, heart and you never forget them or get used to not having them around.
To be quite honest, I'm very offended by your contention that everyone should just get over it, and you may say that's not what you're doing or saying, but looking at your quote above, whether it was intended or not, that is the message you gave us.