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Originally Posted by Fifty Foot Queenie
Yes and no. Yes because I'm miserable, no because I sometimes wonder if my thoughts are valid.
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Of course your thoughts are valid, and you deserve all of the happiness that you can find. Even if the relationship between you and your boyfriend isn't at the point of being abusive, if it's making you miserable then you should definitely think about breaking it off (or at least taking a break from each other for awhile). Normally, I'd recommend letting your boyfriend know that you aren't satisfied, giving them a chance to change their act and perhaps save the relationship, but if they're physically/mentally abusive or have repeatedly ignored your needs then you shouldn't feel ashamed for finding any way out that you can. It can be a very difficult situation with many confusing and mixed feelings and emotions, and I truly hope that you manage to navigate through it with as much ease as possible.