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Originally Posted by Sequoioideae
No, this was never the case, nothing was said directly. I know I said I was 100% sure about the friend thing, it's just she was kind of head gamey telling she wanted to cuddle with me and run her fingers through my hair. I got really tripped up after that ****, and I wanted to not go through those feelings a third time with her.
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awww hunni, she's just projecting on ya.
there's someone else she's got in mind but you're giving her the necessary attention she wants from her object of affection.
I think she's quite nuts to not see the value in you but my standards are obviously different.
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Originally Posted by fiddler
Oh, I feel that. But to a guy when you're feelin' it for a girl, and they friend-zone, it feels like the end of the World. A lot of the time guys feel it's just not worth making that relationship work when you want so much more, but can't have it. It's like watching porn knowing you have a chastity belt on.
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The best thing you can do is respect the girl. You need to respect her based on her standards or she'll never trust you.