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Originally Posted by fiddler
Exactly. "Consent" goes for everything from hanging out with someone, getting romantically involved with someone, to searching someone's car. Glad we agree!
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Love you to bits on this post alone.
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Originally Posted by The Batlord
See, this is the problem with the friendzone. The guy is making himself miserable by not-quite-pursuing a girl he perceives as beyond his reach, just cause he's too scared to actually put himself out there for anyone, and the girl is using him for one-sided emotional fulfillment.
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The thing is, if you really care for her wellbeing, you care that you're influencing her happiness by being her friend. Maybe she'll share your feelings someday but for now she just really needs a friend. And that's ok.