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Originally Posted by ladyislingering
The thing is, if you really care for her wellbeing, you care that you're influencing her happiness by being her friend. Maybe she'll share your feelings someday but for now she just really needs a friend. And that's ok.
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No it's not. What he's describing is emotional vampirism. It's not healthy for him, and if SHE were a real friend, she wouldn't treat him like a boyfriend when she likely knows that he is attracted to her. Who cares if she needs a friend? Let her find one who won't be her bitch.