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Originally Posted by ladyislingering
it's just my personal opinion.
I'm sure there are people out there that want children and they're totally cool with being stepmom/stepdad or whatever, but not me. My ex actually had a son, who I actually met on two occasions - just a child, only 2-3, but his mother was struggling financially (she had another son with another guy, and the kid has autism) and the whole situation was just a fuckin' disaster.
Furthermore my core values would be compromised by settling for someone who has a child (as I'm childfree by choice) and contrary to popular belief, opposites do not attract.
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And this is why it's easier to raise cats instead of kids.
It's cool, i understand why you would want to avoid all that extra baggage. Can't say i blame ya.