[ignores Batty's bait]
Well said, Kedvesem. Especially the parts about love/respect. So very true. If I talked to my man the way I talked to you guys here on MB... I wouldn't have one. In fact, I think this concept is probably the most important thing to understand for a successful long-term relationship.
Ki, if you let a woman perpetually disrespect you, sure, she might love you for it... but you will grow to hate her. While your breakup wounds are still fresh, I urge you to stop trying to repress them, and instead reflect on patterns... Patterns of treatment between you and lil, the patterns that created your relationship dynamic, and where those patterns eventually led you. If you suppress the pain, you'll never learn from it.
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