Thelonious Monkey

I was never molested, but I was physically abused by my mother when I was young, not to count the fact that she didn't feed me and my sister properly, sometimes not even at all. I then went to live with my Grandma because I told my headteacher at school. But for some reason it never properly affected me in life. Like, it's had zero impact on my life. I never held a grudge (probably seems like I should), and I never really thought about it. And it was never something I felt to hide, since I honestly don't give a **** when I tell somebody I've just met.

Anyway, I have no idea what you're going through, I don't have social anxiety and I'm an extremely confident person. Not shy either. I will admit I'm quiet sometimes, but that's mostly when I'm working or doing work at college, since I get distracted easily. I won't give you any advice since I couldn't possibly understand what you're going through, but I sincerely hope you don't get too down and try to look at the positives the best you can. I couldn't give advice on girls, although I do agree with everybody saying to just go for it. Take a risk if you like somebody. Worked for me, all though that is in no way proof that it will work for you, but it certainly shouldn't phase you if you get rejected. I'm also 19 years old, so I most likely don't know ****, but I felt like saying something so whatever.