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Originally Posted by explosions-in-my-pants
picture growing up in a house hold where one of your parents cheat.. you know its not healthy for a relationship but yet you grow up around it.. you learn that its wrong but stilla part of you thinks its right because your parent does it.. so your learning from them.. as a child its natural be like them.. even like them in there worse moments.. even when you know its wrong.. but if its all you know then its all you know.. i'm not saying chetaing is ok.. because i'm not.. i'm just saying that cheaters most often then not have a history that made them cheat in the first place.. which makes them cheat in most relatuonships until they realize in a part of there minds they need to get thinking.. get fixing on that problem until they realize thats its truley wrong in every part.. .. i hpe you get my point
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This reminds me of a common theory of serial killers blaming their evil ways on a less-than-perfect childhood. People need to start taking responsibility for their actions and stop blaming everyone else. If someone cheats, then they need to have a close look at their relationship (if you can actually call it a relationship at 12 or 14) and stop blaming others.