I think this is a perfect example of how poorly some people understand and treat sexuality. It would be great if the dude could handle an open relationship like that but people tend to be insecure. If you've ever had a lot of female friends you notice they always disappear when they get married because the dude doesn't want her hanging out and I think that's sad and a sad way to handle relationships. You might be the reason for that though.
Regardless, she might just be polyamorous.
How you handle it is up to you. Remember that she's playing with somebody's heart here and that's not something to **** around with. The potential to destroy somebody and you never know how they may react. It's a dangerous game. At the same time her relationship is going to fail because she is lying to him. You'll be cutting ties with a close friend for a doomed relationship. In your heart you know what you want though and I can't tell another person how to act on their heart. One thing for sure though is that the current situation can't continue with out serious consequences.
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Lucem, you're right, it's silly to talk about what I would or wouldn't do IRL. Glad you brought it up. Maybe you should write an instrumental about it. I recommend a piano paired with a clarinet. With ambient sounds of you hanging from your shower curtain you ****ing failure.
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Art Is Dead. Buy My ****.
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