I'm not going to pretend I've got the answer, but whatever you do, throwing out a lifelong friend seems like the worst course of action.
Maybe you two shouldn't be doing this when she's in a relationship. That's not hard to see. Why not just bring that up with her? Tell her you feel that it's wrong and hear her side of it. Chances are she will agree. It might cause short term tensions between you, but if she's really a good friend, it wont likely kill off your friendship forever.
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