Mike will be 28 next month. Sherri is 34. Yes, we own the home but still owe the bank about $170K (house is worth about $450K).
Will not be contacting her in any way for at least a week or 2. I don't put much weight into her words right now because of emotions and hormones.
So glad Mike is home right now. He and I are getting along as good as we have in a long time. We're really great buds when all of the crap is swept away. He's been a rock the past couple of days.