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Originally Posted by OccultHawk
I take those goddamn dick softeners
I found that making time for intimacy with comfort and affection as the primary goal with the attitude that if coitus happens it happens has led to some great ****ing and to some great not ****ing. Sometimes with really intense orgasms on both sides and sometimes to surprising satisfying non-orgasmic sessions
FWIW
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Definitely, that's my approach as well. It's just hard to adjust to needing to put in all the extra effort, especially because it doesn't always feel like a worthwhile endeavor. I'm stuck in a loop of wondering if my relationship is suffering because of the sex, or if the sex is causing issues within the relationship.