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Originally Posted by wolverinewolfweiselpigeon
Definitely, that's my approach as well. It's just hard to adjust to needing to put in all the extra effort, especially because it doesn't always feel like a worthwhile endeavor. I'm stuck in a loop of wondering if my relationship is suffering because of the sex, or if the sex is causing issues within the relationship.
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Try not to lose the following things:
Loving physical affection
Some social life
An income
Relationship with music and literature (for someone like you, at least)
Those are things that can leave a dangerous void
Sometimes these things can slip away. I’m not saying hold on at ALL cost just hold on best you can
My advice = Grain of salt (maybe)