Quote:
Originally Posted by Chula Vista
You've outlined the pros of keeping it. Here's the two big cons: (1)I'd have to pay a monthly storage fee, and without dipping into savings each month, we're going to be on a really tight budget. (2)The RV is only 4.5 months old. The longer I keep it the more it depreciates.
Bat, we were together for 38 years before the separation, and during the 7 months we were not living under the same roof, we still maintained a close relationship. Us moving back in together is as far from a new relationship as can be possible.
We're both 58. This whole deal has zero to do with sex. It has everything to do with companionship. We needed a long break to realize that we missed each other's company, and that the little things that were getting on our nerves are pretty stupid in the grand scheme of things.
One other note is that Linda's been going through menopause and has been prone to compulsive decisions. She's admitted this in regard to the divorce talk. We're going to be just fine.
If we split up again I'll send you $1,000 via Western Union.
|
That's fantastic. Don't sell the RV that you spent a year getting into a dependable lot that you almost didn't get just because your marriage is now on again. That would be stupid. Just keep it and see how things go. If your marriage was so dependable as you make it sound we wouldn't be having this conversation, and if menopause caused divorces for no reason then... menopause doesn't cause divorces for no reason and tbh you saying that makes it sound like you're minimizing the actual causes of your near divorce just to make yourself feel better. Please just show a little caution.
I know you are not going to do this but at least if things go tits up and you have nothing to show for it I'll have this post to quote so I can say I told you so.