So it was menopause. That's what killed four decades of marriage. I mean you can backpeddle but it certainly sounds like you're trying to push what must be some massive issues onto your wife going through a temporary woman thing that you aren't responsible for.
Maybe if you weren't chucking your new financial stability into a river to get a lease on a condo with a woman you were getting divorced from not even a year ago I'd say whatever knock yourself out, but this very much sounds like impetuous teenage decision-making from two people who should probably be taking things slow. Give it a few months and wait till you're actually solid as a couple (having been solid in the past doesn't count) before you start making financial decisions with each other.
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Originally Posted by J.R.R. Tolkien
There is only one bright spot and that is the growing habit of disgruntled men of dynamiting factories and power-stations; I hope that, encouraged now as ‘patriotism’, may remain a habit! But it won’t do any good, if it is not universal.
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