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Neapolitan · 01-09-2019, 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by [MERIT]

Maybe they saw that the handful of people who actually post on a regular basis have been here for years and have thousands of posts and a camaraderie amongst one another, and they felt scared to join the mix in any relevant manner.

Or maybe they saw people like Batty, OH, elph and froundland being assholes to everyone, and didn't want to risk the abuse.

This place was SUPER welcoming when I joined in 2004. Everyone was friendly, for the most part. If you acted like a bully or an asshole, you weren't glorified and imitated like nowadays, you were put in your place by everyone, because people actually cared about this place, not just using it as an outlet to get their jollies or harass people from the safety of a keyboard. But that was definitely a different age, as far as the intent goes.

I served with Frownland in plug.dj. I knew Frownland. Frownland was a friend of mine. [MERIT], Frownland has no asshole about him. He's not wantonly actually acting like an asshole for the sake of assholery. It's more like parodying assholes that one would meet in the world. Those kind of people that stress you out totally. He uses their antics as a premise, and takes it full tilt. It's like negative feedback loop, but in a positive way. Reading the subtext of his post one would easily ascertain it's all but a parody of assholing. It's not to be taken seriously. Not to white knight Frownland, but in his defense he is actually using "surreal and/or absurdist humour" in the guise of assholish jibes and other douchebaggery nonsense.