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Originally Posted by Zhanteimi
I'm not trying to gatekeep suffering. I just don't get why people are depressed. My honest reaction is, "Fuck you! Get off your ass! We've all got problems!"
I never say that, but that's what I feel. It's just my natural reaction. I was horribly abused (physically and sexually) as a child, but I still did well in school and made something of myself. I never once lay in bed and felt sorry for myself or wallowed in lack of desire to do anything. I just don't get it.
Shit needs to get done. Motherfucker, get up and do it!
Again, I could be going about this all wrong, but this is my experience and my feelings.
Sorry, just rambling here...you (a person, not anyone specific here) lie in bed in your depression because you have the luxury to do so. You get food. You have shelter. You wish you're dead? Bullshit. Have someone start firing a gun at you, and you'll be weeping for your life to be spared.
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Oh boy. Knowing what I know about the isolation of gaijinism and how you raise your family and the personality of your wife. The more I spell it out the crueler I’ll sound and if I don’t spell it out I just sound condescending. You’re a lot like soneone who has joined a cult and really believes that’s an accomplishment. There’s a lot of pain that hasn’t been unraveled and like many victims you’re passing the debt on to your family while living in denial.