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Originally Posted by WWWP
I still think it's better to have an absent parent than one who actively resents you or shows how much of a burden you are to them.
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It certainly can be, but I don't think it's healthy for a kid to have a contract hanging over their head where the mother agreed to this before they were even conceived. If it were me I'd just be like why the **** did you even get in a relationship with such a person? I mean we're not talking about a one night stand. Nobody but crazy weirdos would offer a contract like that to someone they picked up at a bar. This would probably be someone the woman was in some kind of actual relationship with and she's got this connection with someone who'd abandon a kid and put it in writing? Just seems perverse.