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Originally Posted by Raime
So, I have a weird question. Does anyone here not talk to people that have been trying to contact them based on the fact you, not them feel unhappy? This person is doing really well for themselves, is happy, graduating from college, and you have nothing to show and are more unhappy than when you last stopped talking to them. Maybe it's shame, or not wanting to bring them down, but it feels wrong to talk to them. I've gotten pretty good at bottling the extent of my depression up so I don't inconvenience others, because no one likes a sad sack, but this person knows me too well to get that past them.
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Sounds like a bit of a low self esteem issue, but most everyone would deal with that situation the same way given the same scenario. Maybe focus on your accomplishments, whether big or small, and try not to gauge your worth based on someone else's. It's all a matter of your own perception, and not everything you think is true.