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Originally Posted by Lucem Ferre
It's important to note that it takes two to have good sex and the quality isn't all reliant on the man to carry it.
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Well of course, I agree, and I hope my last post didn't make it sound as though I believe otherwise. Communication etc is important!!! Couples should regularly have frank discussions about their needs and desires! No one should just passively lie there/not be present even if one prefers a more submissive role in sex. (And from what I've heard/observed, a lot of women seem afraid or just weirdly averse toward the idea of being more assertive in that regard in general, I assume largely due to social conditioning. Many of us (women) in our younger years wound up with the idea that a.) sex is something that happens to us rather than something that is supposed to be mutually pleasurable and b.) ""sex"" = PIV penetration and NOTHING ELSE!! etc.