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Old 12-02-2020, 09:31 AM   #761 (permalink)
Marie Monday
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Being trans does not equal being gay, there's no such thing as a trans-radar.

And the answer is no, lol, you cannot tell someone's gender identity just by looking at them. That's the whole point of rejecting the gender binary. How someone presents outwardly doesn't indicate how they identify internally. It was not a real question.
Oh come on, if someone is not cis but hasn't come out yet, and they're therefore uncomfortable with the gender they publicly identify as, there can definitely be signs. That is what I mean. That kind of discomfort with indentity is also a gaydar thing, which is why I brought that up.
Also, in the ideal case gender identity and presentation aren't connected at all (and I obviously have a lot of personal experience with that struggle) but in practise it often is.
By saying you can tell most people don't mean that they can literally be sure (unless you're Hawk)
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I want to open a school for MB's lost boys and teach them basic coping skills and build up their self esteem and strengthen their emotional intelligence and teach them about vegetables and institutionalized racism and sexism and then they'll all build a bronze statue of me in my honor and my bronzed titties will forever be groped by the grubby paws of you ****ing whiny pathetic white boys.
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