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Originally Posted by Mindfulness
I have often wondered if I am gay, I don't want to have sex with men but at the same time, I'm also not out there trying to pick up women as most men do...
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The fact that you don't try to pick up women doesn't have to be a sign that you're gay. The chasing after women is just part of traditional culture which some men are only part of because they feel like it's expected of them: maybe it's not your style, or maybe you're too shy. Or some people are asexual and don't have a sexual interest in either men or women.
In any case, you could be gay for all I know of course, but the only real indicator is who you're sexually attracted to or fall in love with. That can be a difficult question to answer though.