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Originally Posted by Mindfulness
Yes, shouldn't I have any want or urge to go find some women to have sex with? Don't most men want to have sex? I don't even try, I have Facebook dating app but don't even try that much. I don't have ANY urge to try dating apps. I feel like a relationship will start once some women randomly finds me, I don't go find them.
I guess I am wondering if men who don't even try to chase women, are subconsciously gay like you mentioned.
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They're not (at least not necessarily) and that's exactly what I meant: there is this idea that men are supposed to chase after women and sex. It's an expectation that society has, but that absolutely doesn't mean all men are like that, or that they have to be. Some men just like to find a girlfriend in a different way, or they don't have a strong sex drive (or like I said, maybe they're even asexual). It's just that the idea that men have to behave a certain way is so strong that some people don't understand when some people are different, and so they think 'oh they must be gay then' (because that's the only conventional explanation) but it's not that simple.