I think you’re in the best possible position, mindy.
You don’t come across as a hookup kinda guy to me, I imagine you prefer the trust, stability, and intimacy of a relationship, or at least ****ing someone you have an emotional connection to - therefore where you are right now is perfect. There’s no point pursuing anything but a hookup until you A) are comfortable with yourself and happy being alone, not seeking another person to make you feel good, B) until you know what you even want!, and C) with the right person it should be easy, it shouldn’t feel like work or “chasing,” or playing games.
Not being interested in anyone right now doesn’t have to mean anything other than you’re busy doing your own self work. Don’t let some beezy **** it up for you
