ok I have thoughs about this, so here we go:
I really felt like an outcast in school; I got along with others and there were people who accepted me for who I was, but I didn't fit in at all. That feeling has always remained to a lesser extent, and even nowadays very few people I meet share my taste in music, for instance.
But it gets better; as you get older, the cool people become less conformist and appreciate your individuality. Go out there (I mean, after corona I guess) even though it's scary, and you'll find people you vibe with. I think an important thing to realise is that it's ok not to belong to a certain group. Unless you fit well within a certain type and/or get lucky, you may not find a clique of people like you, but you don't necessarily need to. If you open up to the people around you, you'll find people you can bond with are scattered everywhere, and you discover you relate to people you never thought you would. This is starting to sound like a voiceover in a sentimental B-movie, but it's true.
ps. there's nothing wrong with going to concerts alone. Whenever I want to go see a band nobody I know likes, I just go by myself. In a way I prefer it to going with other people.
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I want to open a school for MB's lost boys and teach them basic coping skills and build up their self esteem and strengthen their emotional intelligence and teach them about vegetables and institutionalized racism and sexism and then they'll all build a bronze statue of me in my honor and my bronzed titties will forever be groped by the grubby paws of you ****ing whiny pathetic white boys.
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