Originally Posted by Guybrush

This might possibly offend some and if so I'm sorry, but for myself, I am not hung up on sexuality at all. To fit myself into some fake, binary idea of who I am in regards to sexuality seems dishonest and like shoehorned into a social construct.

My honest expression of sexuality would be that I enjoy sex with women or men and very much both at the same time. I never fell in love with a guy and I generally prefer women, but I do enjoy some of the possibilities from sex with guys. Had I felt free to explore that more in my life, I might have (am monogamous and happily married).

Some people I wanna bang and most not. What's with all the shoehorning (not talking about shoe fetishism)?

Edit:

I could add that while I can't be sure, this is roughly what I believe most "straight" guys would feel like if unfettered by strict adherence to some idea of heterosexuality which I believe has little basis in biology.

In many if not most social mammal species, guys bang guys and still make babies with the ladies.