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Originally Posted by Celladorina
Is it just me or more and more women are coming out as queer (mainly bi, lesbian or pan)? I think its partly that men are very hard to be around (they have the audacity) and when married/partners to women they use weaponised incompetence.
weaponized incompetence
When a person acts like they have no idea how to do something even though they definitely do. They do this so that later on they can act like they're the master at either to impress someone or get praise. Also known as strategic incompetence
"I don't know how to do that, you do it"
"Stop lying, everyone knows how to change a tire, weaponized incompetence is why you have no girlfriend"
"Fine, (murmurs cartoon profanities)"
by HumongousBazongas AvadaKedavra December 21, 2021
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I'm not sure you understand how sexuality works.
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Originally Posted by BassoonPlatoon
I think a lot of people think it's just not worth it to come out and I tend to agree.
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Depends on your circumstances, it's probably not wise to come out if you know the reaction in your immediate surroundings will be negative and it could impact your life severely. If it's down only to your family or toxic friends, it's probably best you get away from those elements in any case...
I don't think I ever heard of people regretting coming out if they chose to. Normally it's a huge relief and a burden off your shoulders.