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Old 01-27-2022, 08:07 PM   #76851 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by FETCHER. View Post
Thanks everyone, it has been in the pipeline for a while and we knew it was always going to be a possibility.

I don’t know TH, I just felt like I shouldn’t have a reason to cry or be upset because it’s not my diagnosis. Which I know is stupid. We are both pretty strong but felt like I had to try and hold myself together for him.
Well of course I don't know, but let's say your mother or father was diagnosed with cancer, or your bf was. Wouldn't you cry then? Wouldn't they sort of want you to? I dunno, could be well off the beam here (and if I am I do apologise) but is an emotional reaction better than it looking like you're ignoring it or downplaying it? Do you think he's waiting for you to say something, or (you know him best of course) does he prefer you to be strong/aloof from it? Maybe talking about it makes it too real, too possible?

Hell, what do I know? Have a kitten. Best I can do.

Hey! I said one! Greedy...
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