Here's a good thread of comments on PRMBA that likely sums up what's really going on. His wife being less normal isn't a condemnation of him though. (but holy eff:
https://www.youtube.com/@linh7x/videos)
https://www.reddit.com/r/poppunkers/...punk_rock_mba/
That said, the no-tattoos thing in grounds for divorce.