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Originally Posted by hobojesus
Raine how old are you again?
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She's 16 (nearly 17).
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Originally Posted by Raine
And why should I dump rob again?
Unless you're just as disgusted by the age difference as everyone else here . .
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There's no need for you to dump your boyfriend at the moment. I don't think you should consider giving in to pressure to get married anytime soon though, as whatever you've already been through in your life and however mature you and others already consider you to be, you're going to mature and change further over the next few years... whereas a 25 year old guy isn't going to change so much. Chances are, give it a few years and you'll be seeing him as immature and he'll annoy the hell out of you. But that'll all depend on the progress of time. You might not have painted the best picture of him by saying that he doesn't stand up to his mum, but that
was specifically something that pissed you off, so I suppose for now it'd make sense to assume that's the worst he's done.
You say arranged marriages are still popular in your (Japanese?) family and some think you should be married by the age of 16? What the hell? I've hung out in rural villages in India and Africa and don't know of anybody in these places who is married by 16 anymore. Except the weird tribals who live in the woods. And they were weird... and lived in the woods.