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Originally Posted by hobojesus
And your boyfriends mother called you a tramp? Shouldn't she be judging her son more? You are young and still naive. He has no excuse.
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Spot on. Personally, I don't think there's a problem
at all from the girl's side in a 16 year old girl wanting to be in a relationship with a 25 year old guy. The man is going to tend to be more emotionally mature, wiser, more stable and probably more physically attractive aged 25 than he was at age 16. Women find those things attractive, its only natural to do so, so its a case of going for what they find more attractive. There are pros and cons for girls to date guys their own age and for them to date guys older (also to date guys younger, but this doesn't appeal so often!).
But what you've got to ask is what a guy is looking for in a girl in her mid-teens when he's in his mid twenties. He might be very physically attracted to her, but personally I'd have to worry about his own mentality when he finds he gets on best with somebody with that many less years of experience under her belt. Now, Raine sounds like she might have had more than the usual share of experiences packed into her 16 years (although to assume so might be pretty patronising to all of the other people her own age), but still that leaves me wondering what the hell a guy is thinking we he wouldn't rather be dating a woman around their own age - at least within a society where he should have been brought up to see that as the norm.