Raine, you're at school so presumably he's the one making the money. Why the bloody hell is he letting you be the one doing the pushing? You should be the one on the bloody sofa if you're the one with the complaint.
He sounds like a complete pussy, to need to be going out with someone 9 years younger than himself at his age and to let you have such control within the relationship. My bets? He's either getting sex from elsewhere, or will be soon.
Has for the whole mother issue. Men don't get into arguments when they can just as easily ignore them. Why? Because getting into the argument means you WILL be pissing off one person a lot, and takes effort. And men are lazy.
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