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Originally Posted by Crowe
- He took my 11 year old brother to see his own grave. No, not my stepdad's grave... he took him to my BROTHER'S GRAVE. And said to him, "This is where you will lay forever, right next to your grandparents and I." He already has a grave stone made up for him... he got it for a present when he was 9. My grandparents give me money.
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Thats strange.. but lots of people do those things these days... there's nothing overly bad about that situation.
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- He told my 7 year old brother (the same brother, but he was 7 at the time) that my mother loved me more than she loved him(my brother). When my mother figured this out, naturally she went ape-****, why would you say that to a 7 year old child? When he was approached about this, his justification was, "I was sympathizing with him because you (my mother) grounded him from TV" - hmm, that sounds like a reasonable way to sympathize with a child... tell him that his mother doesn't love him.
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my mom does love my step bother more.. he's 10..
and my mother also loves my older brother more.. and doesn't hide it.
so maybe your little brother was questioning or something.. and your step father wants your little brother to rely on him more.. trying to make sure he kid plays sides.
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- My brother talks like he is from the 50s because me ole stepdad lives out in a farm in Illinois with his parents. He has actually said to another child in an argument "Hey buster, why don't you come over here so I can make somethin' out of ya!" in a threatening tone. Threatening is used against my best judgement, but that's what it was supposed to be. This really isn't my ex stepdads fault or does it make him crazy... but it's weird to be sure.
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your little brother will probably get beat up a lot..
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- He tells my brother that my mother will love her new husband more than she loves him. Sympathy indeed.
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Whats wrong with that? its clear its true or she would still be with yur step dad.
and how many times has she been married?
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- He tells my brother to not get too close to my mom's new husband, because my mother can't love anyone for too long - I mean, that's why they got divorced, right?
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do you think so?
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That and the fact that me ole step da' kicked my dog across the room or grabbed me by my throat from time to time and gave me a good ole walloping in general. That can't be the reason!
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and he's a mean man.. and clearly didn't love you like a son.. and you mom should have seen that before she had married him. but thank god for you she left him.
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- Buys cows, and lets my brother raise them and he gives them names... like pets. Oh, not so bad... my brother raises them on the farm... pretty happy little image there. They sit down to dinner one night and he tells my brother, Isn't Brownie good? Brownie was one of my brother's pets.
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my aunt does the same thing to her kids.. but with ducks.. only non of them care..said thing is they have these cute things from the time there born till they were like 5 years old.. really sad.. I did say something to her tho.. cause i think its really mean.
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- Told my brother that he had a surprise for him one day when he woke up. He brings my brother out to the porch and tells him to look under it... my brother sees his dog there... it's dead. My father then asks my brother, "Doesn't he look peaceful?"
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dare zi even say it.. but your mom should clearly get full custody of your little brother.. if not he will be really ****ed up..
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- Cries to make my brother feel bad.
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my dad does this all the time.. but it never works.
good luck with your brother, with your step father.. and the sanity of your mother.