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Originally Posted by some_exotic_booze
Say though, that they stay in patches. Like they may be away for 3 days at a time, then come back for weeks, etc...
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My boyfriend comes in for 2 nights a week.. and there in a row. So I'm just as used to sleeping alone as I am with him. there's nothing wrong with that.. its healthy to have fears and have a bit of dependence on someone you know.
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Also I think that if a person is needie, then it's due to their own insecurities, yes?..
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neediness doesn;t always mean insecurty probelms.. more then likely every person at some point in a relationship starts to grown or it at least lingers a bit of neediness.. again its very healthy and there's nothing wrong with it. You just can't become so dependent on the bf/gf that if there's a fight or whatever that you lose your mind with everything until you two are ok again. you life in your relatiinship shouldn't have any effect on your life outside of it.