Yeah, guys really dont like happy girls. They like hot chicks. Its stupid to think guys will like you for you. I did that for the longest time and all I got was losers, the "crazies" of the world. When pea****s go into mating season, the males spread their feathers and dance around and they perform for the females. Its similar with people. When you want someone, you need to somewhat "perform" for them, attract their attention. In short, "beautify" to get their attention. Once you accept the fact you need to change, use makeup, dress better, then you will be happy. You wont be happy if you continue being overlooked and still look homeless. It feels better to look in the mirror with makeup, hair done and some tighter clothes on and go "damn I look good tonight."