ok im in a relationship, the guy got my mate pregnant before we went out and she still has it now. she wants to get rid, but he really wants it, baring in mind he already has a young kid. he is 2yrs older than me and im completely stuck what to do. i feel hurt that he wants the child, but i respect him for not wanting to kill it, he says he loves me and i love him, but i dont want to leave him, what do i do?