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That's an interesting theory, and since I'm a very introspective person, I can look at that with an open mind. However, me being a guy in my mid 20's, I can tell you that aside from just wanting guys to be jerks because I'm jealous of them, there are other reasons. For example, how about the fact that many guys I've talked to w/ girlfriends frequently talk about how hot a woman is that's walking by, or how much he'd like to f*ck her, or guys w/ girlfriends that actually do f*ck other girls, and go around bragging about how he f*cked 2 girls yesterday, and his girlfriend doesn't suspect a thing.
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Hes also in his mid twenties.
Also, I know girls who have boyfriends and they do the same thing and girls cheat on guys too. You see the thing about all this crap is everyone treats it like these problems are gender specific, they're not.
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Your theory is worth a look, however you saying that's the only link you've seen pretty much says it all, because while I wish I could add it up to my underachieving ways or lack of self-esteem, (those can be changed, you can change yourself, you can't change others), in my experience it definitely seems to be true that more jerky guys can get girls.
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Probably because they're willing to show confidence and go for it. If you act like a shy prat why would a girl wanna talk to you? You can instantly know someones personality as soon as you see them.
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I actually have girls hit on me sometimes, but their approach is wack, like really pretentious. Why can't a girl just honestly like me for who I am, rather than me just striking her mood right at that time?
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Because if a girl just approaches you, she can't even know you for who you are. Duh.
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Women and men today in their approach to liking the opposite sex, generally are very aggressive as opposed to assertive. When they see something they like, they must own it. And they sort of attack it, rather than love it. Does anyone know what I'm saying?
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I know what you're saying but it only applies to some people.
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Postscript Crowquill: How 'bout people just make posts about whatever they want, and since my posts are pertaining to this thread, I don't see anything wrong. Go ahead, close the thread, and I won't say anymore, but I believe I ought to be able to make posts regarding the issue at hand. thx.
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That wasn't a stab at you, it was a general statement. Prior to this thread I noticed alot of "ALL GIRLZ SUCK AND ARE EVIL" posts, I actually liked this thread until people started getting all serious.
p.s. you need to learn about paragraphs.