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Originally Posted by Lizzie
I don't really understand that,
Why you couldn't date a guy long term if you really liked
just 'cause he's ugly...?
That does seem kind of shallow to me
I personally don't base a whole lot on looks
'Cause I tend to find lots of ugly guys good-looking anyways
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and thats fine,...if you find them good looking then they are good looking,....
human arousal greatly depends on what we find attractive,....the visuals are important long term,....cuz after you've had sex, and the newness is gone,...and you've gotten to know each other,......and you've fallen into that comfort zone,....if there's not that attraction, there's nothing that separates you from just friends,.....
and while i think 'friendship' is important in a relationship,....i've got enough friends,....i'm lookin for someone i cant keep my hands off,.....and who cant keep their hands off me,.....
and if thats shallow,....so be it