Anastassiya (is that a russian name?), I know you think that the internet is not a reliable means to get attention but you should really consider putting yourself out there, it really is a great way to get a loyal following of fans. You should record a demo song or two and put them online. The people in this forum seem to be genuinely into music so I'm sure they will be glad to give you their honest opinions. If I like it, I could write about you on my site and maybe get a bit (its still very new) of exposure for you that way.
You're underestimating the power of the internet
