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Old 02-13-2009, 01:35 AM   #20 (permalink)
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I promised myself that whoever came along I would see through to the bitter end.
That's the worst reason for being in a relationship i've ever heard of. Do yourself and this poor girl a huge favour and break it off if you dont want to be with her. If you're worried about going through another breakup, suck it up because by stringing this girl along in some bizarre rebound experiment you're only going to make matters a whole lot worse. It doesn't sound like you're with her because YOU want to be with her. It sounds like you're with her because she wants to be with you, you're afraid of being single and she was the first girl that just happened to "come along". HORRIBLE combination. If this is the case, get out before you screw this poor girl over. If however I've gotten it all wrong, and you really are very happy with this girl, and not just with her to get over your ex, then disregard all that.
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