I think its safe to say that a good portion of the time, men initiate sex and women guide it. I've never been with a woman I didn't learn something from. It's easy to please a guy, but women are all different. I think honesty is always important in any kind of relationship so if either partner wants something then they should always be up front about it. Men, or at east most of the guys I know, are usually pretty willing to try new things if it will please their lady. And if they react in a defensive way, its probably some weirdo shame they've bottled up from having a similar kind of desire.
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