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Originally Posted by 333
First of all, put your **** away. :P You set yourself up for that one.
Yeah, I can imagine why you don't want to tell people around you that you're not a big fan of sex. What a hell of a rep that would be! And you're right, no one on here really cares, just curious, I suppose. I want to know why besides "it's too much work".
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Guilty!
(what's the other hand doing?)
Anyway... why I'm not a big fan of sex is because I prefer blowjobs, handjobs, and for my partner - going down on and fingering her. Having tried 69 yet, but I imagine I'd love that.
The reason for
that is that when I first started having sex, I was so nervous I couldn't keep it hard and it would slip out or sometimes not go in at all, which was frustrating for everybody. Also, when I
was in, I was usually at the bottom and I was kind of out of shape so I couldn't thrust up for long. If I was on top, I got bored (I prefer reaching up and grabbing breast than stretching and doing the same - I'm a breast man). It's not longer as big a problem as it used to be (though I always get nervous with new partners).
The compromise when I was on top was to get her legs up so that she was aiming up and it was easier access for me
and the breasts were also easy to grab.
The reason why I like grabbing breasts during sex is because I have a short attention span and so if all I'm doing is thrusting I get bored and down goes the spear (sorry, I'm sure there are better phallic objects I could've used there).
And that's why "it's too much work" for me and why I'm not a big fan. Unfortunately, blowjobs and handjobs and everything else get tiring if that's all we're doing, so eventually sex is part of it all over again.