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Originally Posted by Thrice
Man I wished we all lived near each other and we could all go out and get ladies. I suck at talking to girls too, but thats why you have friends to play wingman and talk you up. When I was 18, I lived with a couple guys that were older than me that tore me off the comp and took me out. Thats what alot of people need IMO, is a helpful hand holding come extra confidence.
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As you said in the end, its simple. Its about confidence. You don't have to be Brad Pitt, but with confidence you suddenly look and feel a lot better. The funny thing about this is all you really need to do is fake having confidence. After a little bit you wont be faking it, because you are only as cool/confident/goodlookingcharming as YOU think you are.
Just remember that people tend to see you the same way you see yourself. Because of having confidence in myself I have gone up to and talked to dated girls way out of my league. Now I am no model or built football player, just someone who believes he deserves the best. And when you believe that so does everyone else.